{"id":488,"date":"2022-10-29T13:48:21","date_gmt":"2022-10-29T13:48:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/3tenths.co.uk\/?p=488"},"modified":"2022-10-29T15:58:17","modified_gmt":"2022-10-29T15:58:17","slug":"patience-is-a-virtue-i-dont-have","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/3tenths.co.uk\/index.php\/2022\/10\/29\/patience-is-a-virtue-i-dont-have\/","title":{"rendered":"Patience is a Virtue (I Don&#8217;t Have)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-cover\"><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-cover__background has-background-dim\"><\/span><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1548\" height=\"1161\" class=\"wp-block-cover__image-background wp-image-511\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/3tenths.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/shrooms.jpg\" style=\"object-position:95% 15%\" data-object-fit=\"cover\" data-object-position=\"95% 15%\" srcset=\"https:\/\/3tenths.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/shrooms.jpg 1548w, https:\/\/3tenths.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/shrooms-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/3tenths.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/shrooms-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/3tenths.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/shrooms-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/3tenths.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/shrooms-1536x1152.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1548px) 100vw, 1548px\" \/><div class=\"wp-block-cover__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-cover-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-large-font-size\"><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Patience Zero<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>Personally I think I&#8217;m pretty patient.  Rosana says otherwise.  Either way, this grand plan of ours is starting to test my level of patience. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It started off well enough when the house found a buyer so quickly.  Leaving work was weird; it&#8217;s funny how a three month notice period simultaneously went in the blink of an eye and yet dragged on and on.  Projects were finished, knowledge was handed over, leaving drinks were drunk and a long career finished.  The friendships formed haven&#8217;t ended though, they&#8217;re still in place.  I just have to remember to not be a stranger.  It was incredibly humbling to receive a generous leaving gift and I did get a bit choked up about that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A month after finishing work, four months after setting this plan in motion, where are we?  Sat amongst boxes in a home that isn&#8217;t really a home any more.  The news in the wider world of house sales isn&#8217;t great.  On the back of massively unstable interest rates, lenders are dropping mortgage products faster than I can drop juggling balls.  That&#8217;s impacting buyers but I have no idea if it&#8217;s impacting our buyer.  I have no idea what is happening at all really, information is not exactly forthcoming which is incredibly frustrating.  So we wait <s>im<\/s>patiently.  If it all falls apart we have a plan B and I now understand why moving home is considered so stressful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Busy Doing Nothing<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/4mhhD6E7f2Ruv3yoibcS71jwGbGFF2j_wbwkjoPeoa_p55700DxGhtPHwR9NSgYuriYloNi8wfyBEeLrHfErCdCvTQHXvSCuCpTnzPKX0srMXn0NkN1EsOubXANkK1yrOkaUcmwCopOaTlj0pX2oQJ0cC4_pi3AhpLe64OJal7HZy7RmXA1869p7w_h0ySl1fE3LX9vP8At_UjxUEMOcVwXu2QuXLFY3fK3VxbmOv-PS-CVEXoIYpb85uhh8a8vWVChGPPcooZjICU1IkHiNzkEpf2k5luvSHOit4v10avp9JRiTRcNJ0P6v8bEmj2n_1_zHW5WR-zSlE2KvPHppAIeZ48zmIGjORL9onl6LG10-27uDW1Bq_5jlH7x8t-tnkhF3S6dpMu6iPovHFzzW_o10fTWPNeTNYUmUgTMrqwmVumZTtVEpEmvm1KdhIMNOoyLByhY1g1nWEy_q9reSYWdmI7eRW4MzATq6UhWW3Oj7FfDXczY8v-fKWf9YSlrMicaTxtjeOr7yvvReX7Di2rip0GgRG9WyFEUGWbg7xl1gkT2H4dhGr47hnDRCMfpBAvbC6vAVfD8g7JvCe6_Kz2tQIMgRLa219nRlc-QsINi1qpstpg9A-rJIWtYGdFgYDRTacUGmOzwqa3lSnPP3smLHYRTxYQdF470iS-uXME8c7xy-2C72B9jo4Kq1QHTVFJCky604DiN2C0RYgG31kflnAAwuhI1N4LZHLeCPe3hEN_-pMrNZkadv3LOLQrXNU88QPq5cbSW0adqxqjwQh-UBbvYmjF4sPJuzIpmjE7MPLGGiL3BOL8N79pI5x1VSZigo7ddlIvkgEEIb6Nlk8uIXfz04gXY7q2nKiw1udIyZmyJK1nx4PQgRmMQXCjTeGCwNh2O3gmc0Qp8IBiXNT3NS7-vVBfKY7w_En2xEE_sGhg4-TrW6HPbymuVvE-MekS8uMP_nOaROcS_PWA=w888-h666-no?authuser=0\" alt=\"\"\/><figcaption>Pitstone Windmill<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>We&#8217;re making good use of the time. A run of great autumn weather has seen us out walking the local country side, finding new places and revisiting some favourites. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A couple of Gumtree sale deliveries have allowed us to explore further afield too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Watching the trees slowly change colour has been a joy, the soft greens giving way to vibrant yellows, reds and browns. It&#8217;s my favourite time of year to be walking among the woodlands, so I should be thankful really for the extra time we&#8217;ve been given to enjoy this.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/s-wMGJqA6rzhwkX-og7xm583X61Oo8bftaGQl7U0zjcy0uovul-lqEcV2mEr0hUfn1eBDD7D25_FzsrrdjMm044ADqlYtnYI7lhj-6AXYWcPha-4GnQukapZ_VidfUZq4cpeY9p-muxcRVkT4cSIbZiIPqgJvSP7hou0f1nAvtT-zzF9Y8eAxIY2gqsu-1tl3CBE5A3RVOVgecgqr3D-Db-oKfspfYIEaJ6Ze6v_4zEuMTqHJV9WXEVSusRLNXqWiBS6pMm0SxEpraipEcpsGUhd8y3UCPuPOoButwWGSBdw6dtlv2OSsGiMFqqPAwZvZwpGto50WcsooHI-ySMpt-rJftr3uJi5bOxcyaW84rMdWhng7TkTmVCjxCEck4Juq4wa6LjlRhRxomdi6EC0ya68aiFH7vHcJevPxMUcI74CUSidRvby50RUG1aEGi5O_q8HD9ek_UcgRS4WIeKkrVAt1GBxOEla0EjvNFYmbaBVK3K3iU0xvpUSwca2Mw1b7egCIsv-uT8jTKKLNJUqywBsEVPPn0Blkl4fVF0FrO0L2YWLTY5KyFvn1qBU0klh1Ny56LVvsa77zy5rY7_yRGDx9c16wiLAmYw7AXqr95PSQZqyR_mrz8xvIdK5kLvfoP4tPmj7uUkMyGeWKSw2bDfekJL9tye3yWKMEyc9ZdmCYKB2xG0t-i3BM88ky6aDMNZXZOUnkxfL-jQzPxaRMJp5hiKSglHjYW8yMAaq3qRVX0MvWeBeXfjw0ZKpjbNTe0BeO5s2xS9j4qQ7I9JIC-NwHjvloLhLVppIzMj51xEM3p6AVJEPgL7viqZ89sIgMYqurHPpO8RTXir5dLafPb4uiquTvNjf1xXJaJR9Rf5vnIow2kpBPQrrq9KeJAT8MoFfr50R3tAOvab0QDwKUKn9GQ3u4tGIipCrxDoiLzmSLaPPxgn7Gyt3rINbkylUuJrEYUVcN9UjwqkP7A=w888-h666-no?authuser=0\" alt=\"\"\/><figcaption>There&#8217;s still some water in the Thames<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/4hjOhAtmczQNk2bYaLowk6lVZKDzzlNvVwlXadxzTzvrCcTyJWAZf0Zp7Jt2xZiHS6zQmGhm5zOgyuz1MuGLaIH_3eoTO603I3nPrCUJpAvbx81tSw8IVrLqQeoWvfcUQOZek6VWgJBZUhg3nYSFWJDIfuWf-zFLWb_fVpPylOIVKPQkSRt_WCgwmxDBmyFYQqtFa5nseSY_NTGDSJ0U_za_rAjvseWrp91zvG0zHoVrQK-Ne2CZ9SJ9KIXQQvTr2oHoxaFzvksXi0Dc6g-96lGTvqmz6eW44lgVui_7UQ_W9IuiptBXLx4bst_HSULs2JnH4q7Z8JZjt08x5apKD_um3JJRruxgDqJt1pZX11hysS9HCvZmOkyimZRsLluJsaLo8Eg3WgbBHn8MKLwy5egFcX_hUGPei8XzscWqMTTmRxENCzcKdiHqWS4gRSrvhzcf0svi-C9dpoKTc5dcweB-citZfUKNXabFI-FHUEwvapxsH7t9r1LDEV8mlHFfijREM0WdZG1Un-lZ7vL73DaAaZnvLczf8tYyuGRMmIUNrcu-HIf6IazSGX_DDkM5h9reDXfCn2r8xjDDRU3ArikwJ5Iw6UMYcq3gpCId491bDNsuLn-dkgVtQ-VXJSMDQ3BJuK3lvnjAcE7lTeeO2_pME9VoKH_z76ySKw2OSUA_ZTKE7HmpMOzw2zM6EUNLqi02p1IN1GQWP3iHfrD9aK-v3ZNd82Xb4xocp9p6_OtfKEkBm_HmE75Fbru4K1QvIfd7eQEECefRVKTtt4fsEB6LMC5AiC29ofVduAyYAQH0Rdda8rFwqEk8cs-sowQ3DLbOmlEHCtNe-MbWcGWt0fdN1xHthz5hojVvAIfmInak81_Z_jmgizn2CY4ofczfu-WB9USoqjWMNcBV6x_ikB614iP441aLbs303dHINxTSG_G7d5gr-LpsLQSxTxhWRG8NkUEetRurkhcUww=w888-h666-no?authuser=0\" alt=\"\"\/><figcaption>Clivedon House<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>We&#8217;ve pretty much completed the massive reduction in stuff we own, to the point that we&#8217;re sitting on camping chairs and sleeping on camping mattresses. Only a washing machine and fridge to rid ourselves of and our possessions should fit neatly in the back of a small van (even the <a href=\"https:\/\/3tenths.co.uk\/index.php\/2022\/08\/29\/no-plan-survives-the-road\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">Megadeth CDs<\/a> went).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rosana busies herself working on new craft ideas for our <a href=\"http:\/\/puffinzero.etsy.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener sponsored\" title=\"Etsy shop\">Etsy shop<\/a>, hoping we can capture some of the Christmas market, assuming anyone has any money left to spend on Christmas this year.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/9z8a5NuENglUv-iYG6gcBmASoDNjNQ4dizEneLd7L3syopOZVf83dktiMJca9t79ufzdvRxt-b0kcUmShTxCyuiunkokc_p474sEHdeWEyTuBxmlMypxs6_1rULGrAImiimy9sruxZoQoqqQ-tKc6v4DF-xZaqdkNJ1wjidzrYbDOp6jYF3Qm1IY7pPjP1BKF_LuPp0V2sBtn6K3WtJkpwuV6H_dFl6SyY6GsrupqNblNpeZctV-LYnILI4F2D_8hPJrNFvLkATXtXftbdw6Ul-x82NqjLTatNSup6qsmtryvjHhsADsuhZvopKlSzdoENqwTEdXFAwKplp4vB_H-YMMipIfebisalJjvfxTYCaDiGsTpgQIXinqprwBsKiP4EY7Nvosl3M6Lf61J7hWmH4KbDWZVdT8msWHe-mP7e_4-sdj8ZOgcFKOz3v3WVrQDpeNOmrv4xMoJoHrJv5y4TJAXr6xesvcDxnlVu32HDd0MVhIG_tacNp3fwP00_5BQI3bN7rWTiEz5HTtGQf1BkPy2Kt2lz8w0DxiwF7WR-Calt-XJMWhp31M7OvPUzbBMZ0APWvj-_kqhBkBmiMnRM0E_CypF-up0uPuW56tQ8bni1sAJotpgRziu1wZ1vvK1Qc8HzvAtcfotjPDKnaHcfO2WcUBYn85k2lcGmKJgU313vgrNE7CJdgukMKjR6WMvwsMmer52rrgGor7iK7dLzF71eQryehPuuXhKoxCtWOUCtWNd550Ohx4K7lRGGLJDRBDyQ3sZ8KkYzBNQJBcPhtC19b9J1qIO4_mjZHKs8CZ3m27gm45BMdb7S0BhZQ063fdN4cOXpbZtaPzpo_5u-ibyYn4VUufBBUA1wES1a7q00K-nTJmdGJl-5vIfxu_xY3dWugCV_1QKkTVvrNUIUU16yz4c1KaRPXvSJP03Ttg9BCeXNBKUT_ZyX0HXrcjBTe6ML-tb1uUre_egg=w999-h666-no?authuser=0\" alt=\"\"\/><figcaption>Rosana&#8217;s been busy<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Joy of Old Vans<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<p>Godzuki! has had a few final jobs done. A routine inspection discovered a leaking rear oil seal on the engine and we&#8217;d discovered some rust under one of the front wheel wells which we though would be prudent to repair given that Rosana was sitting on top of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Those jobs were way beyond my pay grade, so that&#8217;s all been sorted thanks to my trusty mechanic. I thought we&#8217;d be out of here by now so I didn&#8217;t start work on the external oil cooler I wanted to fit for the transmission fluid, but I&#8217;m getting tempted to get my tools out of storage and work on that. I just get a bit panicked about the idea of something on the job going wrong and not being able to get the parts I need before we move out. Such are the joys of owning a near thirty year old grey import. That aside, he&#8217;s looking in great shape and raring to go. I even washed him.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/C1t5ZRRIv2ICVtrZiJkDw3iwqa0Be3GnL6GpazrVAW_ZczvbWyDiJ98KpYCcf9yAwUvI3I4WL3Q-cTxeHlLzgFeu1lTP3dlwDrIz6b_WjothWWoD1vPak_o1uHVx2ZwfKw9WxteRe40N84SMly3u9b5x5ufq7MQqQvAtfSqVd_GTDYli-NDtpEx7fEJ87ssk59w3DNrRm_w341dGKu7u1zPcIp9n1sZNYpIzdKMa8BVJfSaU_Im3MRbvi9hb1QyNfmlEpxTQgitSGOk64n-EAfzfDRF-sM9Ql2qZ7advLYnWgyqG9UEC4rbMrUw4QC-RWrTIpNpYiCdGTgSuCWrYjva6CrxVsscMFgThiIVRgnlL0q8-0LJUDx48oMSsDlgvWZKM81uLPN3L8zOgApeTSKeQGGv-HNOmQXkdjhr-gPKgB6TAC1EHoPf2tNzNg405zIUevHhMJiaIfT-pdgfCrXGHTDN6l8ZjiTBHeHXSOx7m5evZ8Ea_oGLCi5qy2U7ga5q8sFgXbSHuQBUX3t-EQd9f8Bb3KQjciyDvzE_NFCuf1FBWzMG7ZNX1TTjA35zCoFD4_7oI6xU1Eto540N3Gyg0K9lr0Cyq4Tb36GsCCqETqoTZDUTKSEZhXP-qegL_940ZWaWCBadnlfA2Jq05eR9AbRpkpgj4cbDaQ-3FoX3I83Viep8EEhI6dTuEsTBdv7S_YcR66PTjflviMx4PlheNc0QAi5iEakvY8nY80VkMIDsS74yWW-p1RFvUWtcDzm3ZqpO-X3vkd7nQCSD7QbNirCcqKRBcHk6ozMnJ4PH9_v-n5APNhDjrJMODyK4TmCcpW8yD8ziz6eGDkwK6R8C34cpy309rNZ94eBEa1znOtm-FAm4UIOqi2qUdm3sY0FaDyQ8A_sxxT6f_rYJHQ2qPOHp8z7XXtsIxEhgT9jOJsGdR-PGzvLP3clT2mTiwhV5ToJd_xP18XESqOQ=w500-h666-no?authuser=0\" alt=\"\"\/><figcaption>Leaky. 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I guess we&#8217;ll point Godzuki!&#8217;s nose north and see where we end up. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that is a very exciting thought.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Patience Zero Personally I think I&#8217;m pretty patient. Rosana says otherwise. 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